Thursday, December 27, 2007

Christmas Letter 2007


Happy Holidays

What could be more perfect than curling up in front of a fake gas fireplace, tenderly cradling a wonderful book[1] and chuckling softly at the wit of the author? Apparently, the answer is joining the growing herd of holiday season writers. There is nothing like peer pressure[2] and the piercing stare of someone questioning your value in the whole seasonal process to turn over a new leaf. Without further ado…

We now call Reno, Nevada home. I could dress it up a bit and put on airs like the local airport and tell you we live in Reno-Tahoe but Reno itself is a good enough upgrade over Tampa that it stands alone quite nicely in our minds. What does Reno have to offer that Tampa didn’t? Soft grass that doesn’t harbor fire ants, mountains for hiking, snow for skiing and a 10 minute commute to work. Oh, and if you like Mexican restaurants, Reno has that covered.

It has been six months now and we have all adjusted well. The boys have each found great friends at school and have started going over to their houses on an frequent basis. Luciana has been a bit of a social butterfly, chatting up moms on the sidelines of soccer games, volunteering at Mateos’s school and still finding time to pimp me to ‘compatible’ dads; is there nothing more strange in life than being setup by your wife with another man?

As much as Reno is a change, it is still more of the great same – we still spend plenty of time with Luciana’s sister’s family and the cousins whoop it up and have a great time, my brother-in-law and I talk shop and Luciana, her sister and mom leaf through home and garden magazines and try to ignore the bedlam. The immersion in housing options is, I am told, to my benefit. We have committed to a lot and a floor plan; hopefully next year’s letter will have a photo of a house.

Mateos is a full-on first grader – he tools around on his bicycle, reads like a champ, wants his hair to grow longer, talks trash while playing soccer and football with me, uses Google to troll the web, collects Pokemon cards and begs (unsuccessfully) for a PS3 and Assassin’s Creed for Christmas this year. Pure energy still courses through his veins; while his school teacher gave him a great review she did mention that he routinely falls of his chair during class.

Luca is five now and continues his valiant (if ultimately futile) fight against the gene pool; he is still hanging around in the 95th percentile for size and there appears to be no end in sight to the checkout counter cashier’s favorite reframe of “are they twins?” Luca’s imagination respects few boundaries and if he is not a multi-billionaire due to his latest invention of a teleporter built from construction site waste, then surely he will reap great happiness from the “personal force field” he has asked Santa to deliver this year.

Lu and I are both well. We enjoyed a 10-year anniversary weekend trip to San Francisco while the boys were pampered by the in-laws. For me, I’m at Intuit and I still get a kick out of work and all is going well there, but I’ll spare you the soporific details.

Happy Holidays to all.

Raffi, Luciana, Mateos and Luca


[1] For those wondering, the book is Cocoa Programming for Mac OS X, Second Edition by Aaron Hillegass. [Can we all say “Geek”? – Lu] For those looking for something with a slightly different plotline, I’d recommend “The Glass Castle” and “No Country for Old Men.” If you are looking for a movie recommendation, I really enjoyed “Stranger Than Fiction.”
[2] Thanks a bunch, Lori.

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Mateos's Drawing

Mateos -- now 6 1/2 years old -- drew this monster named 'Gil' tonight after our discussion on Ogres.
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Tuesday, November 20, 2007

First Curse Word

Well, Mateos has achieved a new personal first for him -- his first curse word. Last night, while playing the "I Spy" board game with Luca, myself and my good friend from work, Bernie Emsley, Mateos decried that he wasn't able to find the picture of "this shitty thing" after losing a round. Um. Of course, Bernie and I were not able to totally suppress silly grins. If nothing else, family is always competitive so not to be outdone, Luca fairly shouted out that he had a number of 'shitty pictures' on his cards too. Of course, upon questioning neither had any clue what the word meant but Mateos's face gave away hints that he was pretty sure it was a word he wasn't supposed to be using.

Not sure where that came from. As far as I know, Luciana almost never ever slips. Heck, she never even slips when talking with me. (Well, as long as she is not in the driver's seat.) I am pretty sure that I have not let 'shitty' slip from my lips either; I know I've said 'ass' twice accidentally and to my knowledge he hasn't repeated that. But shitty? Pretty sure that must be from school.

Luca's Teleporter

Tramping around Allen and Marcela's home construction site is a boon for future inventor Luca. Staggering up to me with a mishmash of refuse in his arms, Luca asks -- "can I build a teleporter with this?" Well, I wasn't positive how to answer this. After a little reflection I honestly answered that since no one really knows how to build one, sure, why not -- it is possible that two-thirds of a brick, a broken pipe and 10-inches of wire could be the basis of a teleporter.

This confirmation of his insight greatly pleased Luca. The young capitalist then asked "if I invented the teleporter could I sell it for a lot of money?" I am pretty sure he didn't understand all of my overly analytical answer that delved into the wonderfully low production costs associated with the materials and the expected significant demand -- and the probable keen interest of the military and airline industries -- but I did use the word "billions" in their somewhere and he did clearly hear and understand that. This, of course, sealed my fate -- we were forced to bring home two-thirds of a brick, one broken pipe and 10-inches of wire and to store it safely in the garage.